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04 08 2007, 6:23 pm / Lazy
I miss when being friends was enough. Is'nt dating to find the person ur gonna marry one day. So when your 14 r u reaaaaaly thinking of marrying the person u like? Prollly not, so whats the point of having to date the person? Personally when your friends with the person you have more of a connection then if your dating them. Every relationship that has happened in my class this year starts by the couple saying "I want to get to know u better." Ok thats fine, great, and dandy but it never ends that way. Getting to know the person better is usually by knowing how far you can go with them physically. So if you cared for that person is physical the way to go. No its not, cuz when u wanna hold someones hand r u looking out for them? Nope u arent. When u hold someones hand its for your own pleasure. Your not thinking, "I better hold her hand because its cold." Many times relationships happen because the person is pretty, popular, or rich but its never gonna end a fairytale if you base your values on that. I want someone who is spiritually strong with God, and respects my values and likes me for who I am. And if you really wanna impress me.........just be my friend!
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